Tag: consent
Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics.
It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it’s important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we’ll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.
Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with controlled, loving, aggression – stern and firm.
Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information!
What was Shaylah’s first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then? We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.
Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator – all the brats now have a new term of defense!
Now, don’t feel bad if you’re not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don’t be an asshole, or you’ll have allies to answer to!
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As if one episode on Consent wasn’t enough, here is part two!
Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…
… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.
And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.
To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault!
Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.
Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.
Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes.
Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary!
You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.
If your consent is broken or your safe word is ignored and your boundaries are not respected, here are some helpful resources for sexual assault victims:
Links referenced in this episode are not sponsored in any way
Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…
… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.
And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.
To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault!
Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.
Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.
Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes.
Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! We talk about some of the go-to questions before you negotiate a scene with someone new. Have others we don’t cover here? Let us know!
Some of the Spanko!Podcast spankees have had less than pleasant scenes this past year, and we want everyone to learn these important topics with spanking so everyone can have a good time!
You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.
Links referenced in this episode contain adult material.
The Spanko! Podcast hosts continue to interrogate Loren regarding his spanking lifestyle.
Loren shares his stance on public spanking. They all share their preferences on counting swats. Everyone has a good time reminiscing on Lone Star 2021.
We promise, Part 2 is not a repeat of part 1. You’ll delight listening to part two even more.
