Shaylah

Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with  controlled, loving, aggression – stern and firm. 

Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information! 

What was Shaylah’s first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then?  We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.  

Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator – all the brats now have a new term of defense! 

Now, don’t feel bad if you’re not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don’t be an asshole, or you’ll have allies to answer to! 

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Consent, part 2

As if one episode on Consent wasn’t enough, here is part two!
Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…

… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.

Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.

Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! 

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.


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Consent, part 1

Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…

… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.
Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.
Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! We talk about some of the go-to questions before you negotiate a scene with someone new. Have others we don’t cover here? Let us know!

Some of the Spanko!Podcast spankees have had less than pleasant scenes this past year, and we want everyone to learn these important topics with spanking so everyone can have a good time!  

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.

 

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Loren Punishments

The Spanko! Podcast hosts continue to interrogate Loren regarding his spanking lifestyle.

Loren shares his stance on public spanking. They all share their preferences on counting swats. Everyone has a good time reminiscing on Lone Star 2021.

We promise, Part 2 is not a repeat of part 1. You’ll delight listening to part two even more.

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Loren Punishments

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Loren Punishments

Listen to this titillating new episode as we interview Loren Punishments of Punishments Only spanking videos!

Learn how Loren got started on his spanking adventure.  Laugh with him and the Spanko! Podcast cast as they reminisce on their first  encounter at LoneStar.

Once again, everyone agrees on communication and respecting boundaries for fun and enjoyable spanking scenes.

Don’t be naughty or you might just get a punishment spanking, young lady!

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