Spanko Etiquette for Regional and National Parties

Whether you’ve been to a hotel party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of regional and national parties. 

When you arrive at a hotel party, remember to be nice to the vanillas that are around – don’t feel like you’re on a mission to convert people. The host would very much like to keep the space  they found for ALL OF US. 

Attend classes and participate in small events, Introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Meet lifelong friends from all over the nation, from across the ocean, maybe from up north or even down south. 

Regional or National Parties are still a private event. If you don’t follow the rules, you will be banned and may be banned from others’ as well. 

Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!

 

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Role Play with GoodApple

What goes into a good role play spanking scene? Do you have to be a good actor to role play? What if you don’t have a bunch of costumes? We sat down with GoodApple before his Role Play class at the LoneStar Spanking Party to answer these questions and more.

This gregarious, southern gentleman, who identifies as a switch, has some of the most creative ideas for scenes we’ve come across. He’s an artist, an actor, a romantic, a spankophile, and his passion exudes in everything he does! 

We discuss the scene in Arkansas, the romance of Fifty Shades of Grey, different fantasies, communicating with your partner,  some of our own fantasies, and much more.

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Miss Chris, pt. 2

We now continue our interview with the world-famous disciplinarian, Miss Chris!

Be sure to check out the first part of our interview here.

From her beginnings in the scene, to her earliest thoughts about spanking, to her international travels and so much more, Miss Chris regales us, and our returning guests from MDSS, with tales and experiences across a whole spectrum of spanking!

If you’ve ever wondered about the difference between the BDSM and Spanking scenes,  or the US and European scenes when it comes to Spanking (or CP as they may call it), the evolution of education in the spanking scene, or what makes a Texas Toy, or a pizzle, a unique spanking implement, Miss Chris has stories and information about all of this and so much more!

This is the conclusion of an epic interview you won’t want to miss!

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Miss Chris, pt. 1

Behold! The storytelling power of the world-famous disciplinarian, Miss Chris!

From her national television appearance on The Doctors (where she spanked all three doctors, BTW) Miss Chris now appears on Spanko! Podcast alongside a gaggle of other Spankoholics.

Join us, and our returning guests from MDSS, as Miss Chris regales us with an intense tale of her surprising beginnings as a bottom quickly turned professional dominant with the help of a miracle folding chair. Yeah, no kidding!

With her professionalism, her Bed & Breakfast, her Spankademy and her Disciplinarium, to her wisdom about tickling the senses, and a lot of other fun wordplay, we now know who really has the best words! 

And there’s a lot more to come from Miss Chris, too! This is part one of an epic interview you won’t want to miss!

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Different Scene Dynamics

From a FetLife Fan request: Can the Spankoholics differentiate the types of scene dynamics?

Yikes! What a question! Are we up to the challenge?

 

The Spankaholics return to have an open discussion on different types of spanking scenes and stumble on some self realizations.  

We discuss differences between Funishment scenes and  Role Play scenes THEN we stumble upon Consequential spankings which lead us to Punishment vs Discipline vs Motivational vs Accountability vs Consequential scenes again. Even dab a little in Judicial spanking. 

They continue to avoid discussing sexual and sensual spankings. This group of spankos tends to publicly avoid sharing sexaul aspects of spanking. So if you were hoping to have that be one of your spanking scenes discussions, we don’t apologize. Maybe one day we will come around. 

Anyways, what do you think is a good baseline spanking? Let us know down below in the comments, on Twitter, YouTube, or on FetLife.

 

 

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