Spanko Etiquette for Regional and National Parties

Whether you’ve been to a hotel party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of regional and national parties. 

When you arrive at a hotel party, remember to be nice to the vanillas that are around – don’t feel like you’re on a mission to convert people. The host would very much like to keep the space  they found for ALL OF US. 

Attend classes and participate in small events, Introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Meet lifelong friends from all over the nation, from across the ocean, maybe from up north or even down south. 

Regional or National Parties are still a private event. If you don’t follow the rules, you will be banned and may be banned from others’ as well. 

Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!


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Spanking Parties

Are you looking to mingle with other spankos? Have you done your homework and been networking in order to have a blast at a spanking party? 

Get ready to play out your spanking fantasies, bring your enthusiastic spankoholic-self, and leave drama at home for your first Spanking Party! We’ll tell you about different types of parties, some pointers to find a play partner, and some tips on keeping yourself safe. 

This is it’s own world to explore:

  • House Parties – intimate and small, though lots of fun. 
  • Hotel Parties- a bit larger, perhaps a bit wild. 
  • National Parties –  meet spankos from all around the world, and even some of the professional models. Enjoy just about everything the spanking environment can offer over the course of a long weekend.
  • Dungeon Parties – a spanking party at a BDSM playspace? Sometimes you take what you can get.