Vetting

What is vetting?

If you’ve been to a spanking party before, you’ve probably heard this term, and have probably even been vetted: it’s the background check done to keep everyone at the party as safe as possible.

But it’s not just for parties, this is good for one-on-one play as well. 

How is vetting done? What should you expect? Well, there’s many ways to vet someone. But we discuss a few tips that we’ve used, have seen used, and have been involved with in the past, for both Tops and Bottoms alike.

So, if you’re interested in attending a spanking event, or even hosting a spanking event, or even want to keep yourself safe in one-on-one play (and who doesn’t?), and want to learn more about the vetting process, we hope this episode will give you some good tips to get started.

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Lone Star 2025

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.

As you move on down, move on down the road, you’ll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) 

Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there’s something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won’t want to miss!

But you’d better hurry, the gates to Oz won’t stay open forever!
Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

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Detention and School Role Play

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play? 
Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  

Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole and discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. 

What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? 

We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses 

Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. 

As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? 

Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal’s office, or even British discipline.

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TASSP: Past and Future

Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven’t, TASSP is for you! 

Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025.

Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you’ll have to go to class and even do school work.

Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being “good.”

Or perhaps you want something a bit more serious:  Shit, I have Saturday detention head space! 

But there’s more than “just” school events! TASSP has something for everyone!
And this year, you may even find yourself living out some roleplays from days gone by… or maybe from the distant future!

There’s also judicial events, littles events, playful events, classes, the vendors fair, the Spanking Booth for charity, and so much more!

However you like to play, consensually of course, come to TASSP and join in the adventures!

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School Role Plays at GASP

Teachers, Principals, Fraternity & Sorority Hazing: What is it about school role plays that spankos find so fascinating? 

We sat down (some of us more comfortably than others) after doing many different school-themed role plays at GASP 2024 and talked with some of the participants (on both sides of the paddle) to find out! 

We discuss all aspects of the school events, from organization and planning, to playing the principal and the naughty sorority pledge. While, of course, we each have our own personal reasons for enjoying school-themed play, you’ll be amazed at how much we have in common. 

If you haven’t tried a school role-play yourself, perhaps this episode may pique your interest, or kindle some new ideas! 

Is that the school bell I hear? You’d best behave!

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