First Time at a Party title on a colorful party background

Episode Resources

Links referenced in this episode contain adult material.

First Time at a Spanking Party

Sarah is back for the 2nd part of our 3-year anniversary discussion!

What is it like to be a newbie at your first spanking party? We jumped at the chance to capture this unique moment with Sarah. She has some great observations, too!

We share some of our own beginning party stories as well, discuss the diversity of people in the scene, and answer some other newbie questions as well.

It can be scary being new in the scene. We’re happy to answer questions and share our experiences to help overcome that fear and enjoy your spanking adventure!

 

Our Links:

 

 

 

 

Follow Us

 

Support Us 

       

Miss Matthews, wearing a corset, seated in a chair flexing a menacing cane.

Episode Resources

Links referenced in this episode contain adult material.

Miss Matthews

A Proper Birching, you say? 

How many times do you get to talk to a professional who has never attended a spanking party before? We were lucky enough to sit down with Miss Matthews, aka Melissa R Todd, author, model, actress, educator, and professional disciplinarian, before her first ever national spanking party!

In our first interview at Lone Star Spanking Party 2022, Miss Matthews gives us a sneak peak of her class on birching. And surprisingly, no, it has nothing to do with a certain type of tree! She tells us all about the excitement of being at her first party, some of the journey that led her into spanking, and some of the recent journey (and forthcoming book) about her spanking travels across America!

She claims to be as submissive a dominant as you will ever find, yet at the drop of a hat she turns on her scolding voice and makes our heads spin! This was a great way for us to kick off our time at Lone Star, and I hope you will enjoy it as much as we did! And if you’re not following this lovely lady on Twitter, you’re missing out on a whole lot of fun!

 

 

Our Links:

 

 

 

 

Follow Us

 

Support Us 

       

Episode Resources

Links referenced in this episode are not sponsored in any way

Consent, part 2

As if one episode on Consent wasn’t enough, here is part two!
Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…

… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.

Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.

Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! 

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.


If your consent is broken or your safe word is ignored and your boundaries are not respected, here are some helpful resources for sexual assault victims:

 

 

Our Links:

 

 

 

 

Follow Us

 

Support Us 

       

Let's talk about consent. Freely Given, Reversable, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific

Episode Resources

Links referenced in this episode are not sponsored in any way

Consent, part 1

Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…

… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.
Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.
Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! We talk about some of the go-to questions before you negotiate a scene with someone new. Have others we don’t cover here? Let us know!

Some of the Spanko!Podcast spankees have had less than pleasant scenes this past year, and we want everyone to learn these important topics with spanking so everyone can have a good time!  

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.

 

Our Links:

 

 

 

 

Follow Us

 

Support Us 

       

Sarah Gregory & John Osborne

We the spankos in the United States have established spanking parties! Imagine living in the UK where their spanking activities must remain underground, lest, heaven forbid, the media finds out and reports our spanking kink as “salacious.” 

Get to know the world-famous Sarah Gregory (that’s Sarah with an ‘H’) and John Osborne (aka AAA, or Triple-A if you prefer). This spanking-power-couple shares some amazing details with us.

Sarah shares with us her true calling, some history, and her passion for giving people a safe space to enjoy and practice their spanking kink.

John, a British lad who grew up with robed school masters and was encouraged to take Latin (gag), shares the true terror of being disciplined the British way – disciplina scholastica.  

Have you come out to your parents as a spanko? Sarah and John have! How did these two famed spanko producers get into producing spanking content? And it’s truly delightful when you hear Sarah’s entrepreneur story! These topics and so much more await!

 

Our Links:

 

 

 

 

Follow Us

 

Support Us