Shaylah

Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with  controlled, loving, aggression – stern and firm. 

Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information! 

What was Shaylah’s first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then?  We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.  

Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator – all the brats now have a new term of defense! 

Now, don’t feel bad if you’re not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don’t be an asshole, or you’ll have allies to answer to! 

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Spanking & Bondage
with MinxGrrl & Cinched

We wanted to discuss incorporating some other kinks with spanking, and bondage felt like a natural place to begin. And we couldn’t think of more fun people to discuss this topic with than Bondage expert Cinched and Spanking model MinxGrrl!

Together, this power couple is exploring combining some different kinks with spanking in their own video productions. We were lucky enough to catch up with them at Lone Star 2022 and spend some time discussing their interests and learning where to begin with bondage and how it can enhance a spanking scene.

Don’t worry, spanking purists, this isn’t a bondage-only episode! MinxGrrl shares some stories about what it’s like working with RealSpankings, how she’s able to convince a Rope Top to come to a Spanking Party in Texas, and much, much more.

We had a great time getting to know this adorable couple, and we hope you do, too!

Oh, and since we’ve recorded this episode, MinxGrrl’s Clips Store is now Online!!

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Alaska John

Get to know Alaska John… from Alaska!

He came all the way from north to south where we met in Texas! But this isn’t his shortest spanking travel adventure by far!

We discuss some of the challenges he’s faced in the scene. And if you think it’s hard to find partners, wait until you hear what it’s like to try to meet other spankos in Alaska when you’re gay! 

John openly discusses these challenges, but also the joys of the great state of Alaska, being a switch as you get older, the differences between the gay spanking scene and the hetero spanking scene, the growing societal interest in BDSM, soma spanking games, and a lot more! 

John has a great and unique perspective on the scene and we hope you enjoy getting to know him as much as we did.

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First Time at a Spanking Party

Sarah is back for the 2nd part of our 3-year anniversary discussion!

What is it like to be a newbie at your first spanking party? We jumped at the chance to capture this unique moment with Sarah. She has some great observations, too!

We share some of our own beginning party stories as well, discuss the diversity of people in the scene, and answer some other newbie questions as well.

It can be scary being new in the scene. We’re happy to answer questions and share our experiences to help overcome that fear and enjoy your spanking adventure!

 

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3 Year Anniversary

The Spanko!Podcast turns Three! 

And to celebrate this, we are joined by our biggest fan, Sarah, aka Birdie.
(Seriously, she’s heard our podcast more than we have… and we edit.)

Sarah shares with us how she discovered us and her interest in spanking, how helpful it was to have listened to our Podcast before attending spanking events, and how fortunate she feels to have veteran spankos with which to discuss her spanking needs. 

We’re so glad to have become a part of her journey and helped her grow as a spanko. For example: it took us, Spanko Bottoms, years to realize, “I don’t need a punishment spanking; sometimes I just want attention and a stress relief spanking.” She learns so much faster than some of us!

Do you know how to communicate your needs as a bottom… without being an obnoxious brat? Have you learned to set boundaries as a Top in your spanking relationships? We’re happy to have an outlet to share some insights from our own developmental adventures and silly antics along the way. But, in our experience, we are still learning and growing ourselves! 

Thank you for joining us over the past 3 years! There’s lots more to come. We appreciate all your support along this journey!

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