Consensual Non-Consent

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent? 
After years of communication <3 
After reading the room. 
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we’re just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time – we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It’s your body – your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings.

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GASP 2026

The GASP team has opened Pandora’s box of spanking! 

Join us to hear about the Herculean task the team and volunteers are pulling off this time for GASP 2026. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you’ll hear about here first!

Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??

There’s even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don’t, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking. 

And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else? 

Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.

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FOMO with JOJO

What’s scary on Halloween? Scarier than ghosts or monsters, even? It’s the fear of missing out!! 

We’ve all experienced it. Sometimes just in our spanking lives, sometimes in our vanilla lives, but the fear of missing out is real. No one likes to feel excluded. We are social creatures, after all. Though there are some of us who also thrive on the joy of missing out. 

Join us as returning guest, JoJo Shenanigans, our kink-affirming therapist, gives some pointers on managing the horrors that come from missing out, managing your feelings, navigating jealousy, and finding ways to maybe be included more in the future.

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Lone Star 2025

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.

As you move on down, move on down the road, you’ll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) 

Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there’s something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won’t want to miss!

But you’d better hurry, the gates to Oz won’t stay open forever!
Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

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Blanket Consent

How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent. 

generally people don’t automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice. 

There are fantasies and then there’s reality. Sometimes it takes a lot of communication to be able to fulfill our fantasies; other times it may be instant chemistry, but please be advised:  You don’t have blanket consent with everyone.

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