Consensual Non-Consent

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent? 
After years of communication <3 
After reading the room. 
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we’re just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time – we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It’s your body – your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings.

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Blanket Consent

How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent. 

generally people don’t automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice. 

There are fantasies and then there’s reality. Sometimes it takes a lot of communication to be able to fulfill our fantasies; other times it may be instant chemistry, but please be advised:  You don’t have blanket consent with everyone.

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Spanking University with Princess Kelley May

Education is so important in Kink. Both SpankoPodcast and Princess Kelley May both feel strongly about promoting education in the spanking scene. 

Possibly the busiest woman we know, Princess Kelley May was able to sit down with us at GASP and was generous enough to share a few minutes of her time.

Join us as we discuss Spanking University, her YouTube Channel, her passion for education, and many other related topics that are important to us as spankos including: 

  • Consent 
  • Limits
  • Boundaries
  • Safewords
  • Self-Advocacy
  • Technical Proficiency
  • And More

 

*We apologize for the audio quality, there was a computer issue that occurred during recording which was not noticeable until editing. (It gets better as you listen.)

 

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GASP 2024 Before & After

Join us on our road trip to GASP 2024! Recorded in the car on our way, we discuss everything we hope to experience at this brand new national spanking party! What are we most excited for? Is it better to go with a plan or to be spontaneous? 

Then, in the 2nd half, we’re back in the car reminiscing about our experiences on our way home. What were our favorite parts? Did our plans work out? And what are we most looking forward to happening again?

We had a blast and can’t wait for you to hear about all of our expectations and whether or not the party lived up to them (they did, and then some!). And you never know who may get spanked in the car on our travels!

You’ll be hearing a lot more about GASP in some upcoming episodes, so stay tuned!

If you’re curious about GASP, or interested in tickets for their 2025 party, check out their website at SpankingInAtlanta.com for more information!

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Red Flags

Warning:

This episode contains important safety information, but also references to physical assault, sexual assault, kidnapping, human trafficking, and the trafficking of children. 

If these topics are triggering for you, please join us in another episode.

Please reach out to the resources on our Resource Page if needed.

 

A very special episode of SpankoPodcast:
How to identify Red Flags in Spanking community and what to watch for.

This is a heavier episode of SpankoPodcast than our usual fare. As you know we put an emphasis on safety, and in discussing Red Flags and what to watch for, we couldn’t shy away from the harsh realities of the real world. We did our best to keep the conversation going and not scare our listeners too much. 

We invited our friend D, an expert on these subjects, to help make us all aware of the dangers in our community and to help teach us all what to watch for, how to identify and mitigate Red Flags from potential partners, and how to stay safe and vigilant against the predators out there.

 

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