Tag: kink
Let’s discuss wrapping. Wrapping paper, rapping, chicken wraps…. Oh wait, no … We are talking about that uncomfortable feeling when the implement wraps too far around your hip. Some people hate wrapping, some love it, and some tolerate it reluctantly.
How do you feel about wrapping? We discuss some of our feelings about wrapping. As well as tips on how to communicate with your top if they are wrapping and how to learn to avoid wrapping if you are topping.
[Insert Star Wars-like theme here]
Miss D Spanks is back, veteran of the scene but newer party-goer, joins us again at GASP 2026. Hear how she has evolved from purely a Top to becoming comfortable as a Switch. And how our collective nerdiness helped her come out of her shell.
Yes, being a nerd in the spanko community can even be a perk! We’re all socially awkward (ok… MOST of us!), so if you’re a spanko AND a little on the nerdy side (or a lot on the nerdy side), don’t worry, you’ll fit right in!
Whether you come from Dagobah, Hoth, or even Earth in the current day, we all have our differences and our limits. We discuss people of color and safety in the scene, and how understanding cultural and generational differences can help us all have better scenes.
When it comes to parties – national parties or private ones – be sure to follow the “house rules.” Consent is important everywhere, especially in a public setting. Your Droids ARE welcome here… as long as they follow the rules.
Come get your nerd on and have some spanking fun with Miss D Spanks!
Social currency vs social capital – what’s the difference and why does it matter? Have you ever considered your social capital? What builds your social capital and currency? Do you know how to be a respected community member? Are you helpful? Do you understand boundaries and take time to build friendships? Do you know how to make friends? Did you know there are different levels of friendship?
As a party attendee – do you feel like you have gotten a chance to enjoy spanking parties to the max? Or do you leave feeling like you didn’t fit in? Does it take you time to become comfortable in a setting? Are you only focused on your needs or do you listen to your play partners needs? Are you the type of party attendee that people can’t wait to have back or are you draining the resources without putting back into the community?
Your reputation can precede you. Wouldn’t you like it to be the best one possible?
“At the end of the day we’re all here to have fun and if someone is not having fun, that’s kind of a problem.”
Purveyor (or pervert?) of smut, author of BDSM and spanking erotica, and creator of some kinky games, Letti Lustcraft and her partner, SirChefDaddy, joined us at GASP 2025 to talk about their Domestic Discipline relationship and all their creative endeavors.
Find out how this adorable couple learned to practice Domestic Discipline safely and consensually when one of them originally wasn’t even kinky!
How does one come out to their partner about wanting a Domestic Discipline (DD) relationship?
How do you balance a DD relationship with life and work?
How is kink like a video game? (yeah, Chef went there.)
And so much more!
And not only do we discuss their Domestic Discipline dynamic, we get into some of their creative projects: books, stickers, coloring books, poetry, educational smut, and much more…
… Kinky Cards Against Humanity, anyone? Oh yeah, it’s a thing! (and, like this conversation, it’s so much fun!)
… years of our lives! Join us as we celebrate 6 years of doing Spanko! Podcast!
Reminisce with us on how we’ve grown and changed. Hear about some of our favorite memories. And some of what we hope to do in the future.
And, of course, there has to be some bratting and spanking live on the air to celebrate!
