PTSD and Spanking

Trigger Warnings: Trauma, War, PTSD, Childhood Abuse. 

PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder – a condition brought about by trauma and diagnosed by a professional. Please reach out to a professional to be treated and diagnosed. 

We have the brave Mark, the Very Bad Boy, and a military veteran, joining us to share his experiences as a male bottom into spanking with PTSD. Mark shares how he worked with professionals to be diagnosed and begin his well-being process. 

Triggered by loud noises, Mark still enjoys his spanking, but it has been a challenge to work through. Mark shares his journey, how he handles his triggers and how he worked with a professional spanking domme to gently overcome his fears from childhood.

Fortunately for veterans in the U.S., the V.A. offers quality resources, you just have to be able to get through all the paperwork, and fortunately, they’ll also have someone to assist you with that  as well! 

Please be kind to those around you, we never know what someone is going through.
Please be responsible and seek help. We all have our own timelines, but we are still responsible for how we allow triggers to affect us. We can’t control who or what is going to trigger us, but we can choose how to respond. There are professionals who will work with you, either with your mental health or, potentially, even a professional spanker. 

Thank you to all of our service members!!

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Consensual Non-Consent

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent? 
After years of communication <3 
After reading the room. 
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we’re just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time – we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It’s your body – your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings.

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GASP 2026

The GASP team has opened Pandora’s box of spanking! 

Join us to hear about the Herculean task the team and volunteers are pulling off this time for GASP 2026. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you’ll hear about here first!

Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??

There’s even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don’t, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking. 

And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else? 

Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.

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FOMO with JOJO

What’s scary on Halloween? Scarier than ghosts or monsters, even? It’s the fear of missing out!! 

We’ve all experienced it. Sometimes just in our spanking lives, sometimes in our vanilla lives, but the fear of missing out is real. No one likes to feel excluded. We are social creatures, after all. Though there are some of us who also thrive on the joy of missing out. 

Join us as returning guest, JoJo Shenanigans, our kink-affirming therapist, gives some pointers on managing the horrors that come from missing out, managing your feelings, navigating jealousy, and finding ways to maybe be included more in the future.

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Lone Star 2025

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.

As you move on down, move on down the road, you’ll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) 

Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there’s something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won’t want to miss!

But you’d better hurry, the gates to Oz won’t stay open forever!
Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

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