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Episode 0130 – Detention and School Role Play

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Detention and School Role Play

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play? 
Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  

Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole and discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. 

What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? 

We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses 

Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. 

As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? 

Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal’s office, or even British discipline.

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Episode 0123 – Non-Spanko Partners

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Non-Spanko Partners

So, your partner is a spanko.

We’ve talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spanko partners themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren’t one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions. 

If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Episode 0116 – Lizzy’s Story

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Lizzy’s Story

Hi, I’m Lizzy and… am I a spankoholic? 

Eric and Lizzy discuss labels and how they sometimes don’t fit… and that’s ok!

Lizzy shares her origin story, what it’s like being married to a vanilla, and some fun stories of her adventures in the spanko world. Maybe you can relate to Lizzy’s Story?

Some of you have asked for each of our individual stories. Lizzy was brave enough to be the first to jump in! Perhaps we’ll continue and tell you how each of the other hosts have grown as well. 

Everyone spankos differently. As Eric always quotes, “what’s important is finding out what works for you.”

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Episode 0113 – Impact Play with Mr. Ben

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Impact Play with Mr. Ben

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as “impact play.”

However, do you remember looking up “Spanking” in the dictionary? 

to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand. 

We are literally having buttocks struck – causing impact – with either the hand or some sort of implement. 

“But it’s spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy.”

 

Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communication and  consent. 

We can still learn and do better as a community as a whole. We owe ourselves this. A top is allowing themselves to strike another individual – pretty much assault – unless the receiver has consented. 

We hope this episode will leave an impact!

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Episode 0087 – Topping with a Vanilla Partner

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Topping with a Vanilla Partner

Karina and Sunny sit down with return guest, MotownCouple to discuss the fundamentals of balancing a vanilla relationship with being a Top in the spanking community. Hear some very personal details about a very functional relationship that strikes this unique balance. 

Find out what it takes to have the best of both worlds, and get some tips on how one might accomplish this with openness, honesty, understanding, and communication.

 

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