Vetting

What is vetting?

If you’ve been to a spanking party before, you’ve probably heard this term, and have probably even been vetted: it’s the background check done to keep everyone at the party as safe as possible.

But it’s not just for parties, this is good for one-on-one play as well. 

How is vetting done? What should you expect? Well, there’s many ways to vet someone. But we discuss a few tips that we’ve used, have seen used, and have been involved with in the past, for both Tops and Bottoms alike.

So, if you’re interested in attending a spanking event, or even hosting a spanking event, or even want to keep yourself safe in one-on-one play (and who doesn’t?), and want to learn more about the vetting process, we hope this episode will give you some good tips to get started.

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GASP 2026

The GASP team has opened Pandora’s box of spanking! 

Join us to hear about the Herculean task the team and volunteers are pulling off this time for GASP 2026. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you’ll hear about here first!

Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??

There’s even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don’t, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking. 

And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else? 

Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.

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Lone Star 2025

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.

As you move on down, move on down the road, you’ll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) 

Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there’s something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won’t want to miss!

But you’d better hurry, the gates to Oz won’t stay open forever!
Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

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Detention and School Role Play

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play? 
Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  

Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole and discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. 

What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? 

We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses 

Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. 

As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? 

Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal’s office, or even British discipline.

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Nemo dressed as a Frog spanking a schoolgirl with a strap.

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Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming

Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won’t want to miss.

What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it’s fun to explore playing with more than one friend at the same time.  

Our exceptional guests regale us with poetic, and almost play-by-play, reminiscences of this type of “dance” and what makes it so “yummy.” 

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