Consensual Non-Consent

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent? 
After years of communication <3 
After reading the room. 
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we’re just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time – we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It’s your body – your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings.

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Blanket Consent

How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent. 

generally people don’t automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice. 

There are fantasies and then there’s reality. Sometimes it takes a lot of communication to be able to fulfill our fantasies; other times it may be instant chemistry, but please be advised:  You don’t have blanket consent with everyone.

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Aria Lennox

At the Lone Star Spanking party 2023 we met with Aria Lennox. She’s a performer, a model, a switch, and a wonderfully bubbly personality. She shares her experience with self-care as she returns from a spanking party hiatus. Join us as we discuss some of our favorite things about spanking parties and the importance of building spanking friendships. 

Learn about Aria’s favorite spanking scenes regardless if she is topping, bottoming, or making videos. She shares with us the power of self advocacy, staying positive, being kind, and setting boundaries to avoid negativity. 

She encourages us to focus our time on the people who are good for us, taking care of yourself to stay healthy in the scene as well as physically, and how to empower yourself to advocate for yourself.

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Spanking University with Princess Kelley May

Education is so important in Kink. Both SpankoPodcast and Princess Kelley May both feel strongly about promoting education in the spanking scene. 

Possibly the busiest woman we know, Princess Kelley May was able to sit down with us at GASP and was generous enough to share a few minutes of her time.

Join us as we discuss Spanking University, her YouTube Channel, her passion for education, and many other related topics that are important to us as spankos including: 

  • Consent 
  • Limits
  • Boundaries
  • Safewords
  • Self-Advocacy
  • Technical Proficiency
  • And More

 

*We apologize for the audio quality, there was a computer issue that occurred during recording which was not noticeable until editing. (It gets better as you listen.)

 

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