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Episode 0137 – FOMO with JOJO

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FOMO with JOJO

What’s scary on Halloween? Scarier than ghosts or monsters, even? It’s the fear of missing out!! 

We’ve all experienced it. Sometimes just in our spanking lives, sometimes in our vanilla lives, but the fear of missing out is real. No one likes to feel excluded. We are social creatures, after all. Though there are some of us who also thrive on the joy of missing out. 

Join us as returning guest, JoJo Shenanigans, our kink-affirming therapist, gives some pointers on managing the horrors that come from missing out, managing your feelings, navigating jealousy, and finding ways to maybe be included more in the future.

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Episode 0135 – Blanket Consent

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Blanket Consent

How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent. 

generally people don’t automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice. 

There are fantasies and then there’s reality. Sometimes it takes a lot of communication to be able to fulfill our fantasies; other times it may be instant chemistry, but please be advised:  You don’t have blanket consent with everyone.

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Episode 0128 – Cracking the Egg

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Cracking the Egg

Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast:

For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it’s like to be Trans in the Spanking Community. 

Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self). 

We cover a wide range of topics such as gender identity affecting your chosen role as Top, Bottom, or Switch, and finding acceptance both with yourself and in the community. We also dive into some deep and personal territory and bring a lot of emotions and vulnerability forward. The journey is not always an easy one, but what we all experienced in creating this episode was love, support, and acceptance in ways that moved some of us to tears. 

Whether you have trans friends, feel awkward about discussing trans issues, have questions about playing with a trans person, are on your own journey of self-discovery or acceptance, or if you have ever felt awkward about yourself in any capacity, please give this episode a listen. 

We hope we’ve captured and shared with you the beauty and love in the room that we all felt while recording this very special episode.

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Episode 0116 – Lizzy’s Story

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Lizzy’s Story

Hi, I’m Lizzy and… am I a spankoholic? 

Eric and Lizzy discuss labels and how they sometimes don’t fit… and that’s ok!

Lizzy shares her origin story, what it’s like being married to a vanilla, and some fun stories of her adventures in the spanko world. Maybe you can relate to Lizzy’s Story?

Some of you have asked for each of our individual stories. Lizzy was brave enough to be the first to jump in! Perhaps we’ll continue and tell you how each of the other hosts have grown as well. 

Everyone spankos differently. As Eric always quotes, “what’s important is finding out what works for you.”

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Episode 0107 – Aria Lennox

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Aria Lennox

At the Lone Star Spanking party 2023 we met with Aria Lennox. She’s a performer, a model, a switch, and a wonderfully bubbly personality. She shares her experience with self-care as she returns from a spanking party hiatus. Join us as we discuss some of our favorite things about spanking parties and the importance of building spanking friendships. 

Learn about Aria’s favorite spanking scenes regardless if she is topping, bottoming, or making videos. She shares with us the power of self advocacy, staying positive, being kind, and setting boundaries to avoid negativity. 

She encourages us to focus our time on the people who are good for us, taking care of yourself to stay healthy in the scene as well as physically, and how to empower yourself to advocate for yourself.

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