Consensual Non-Consent

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent? 
After years of communication <3 
After reading the room. 
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we’re just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time – we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It’s your body – your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings.

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Non-Spanko Partners

So, your partner is a spanko.

We’ve talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spanko partners themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren’t one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions. 

If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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