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Episode 0132 – From Bottom To Top

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From Bottom To Top

You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. 

Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. 

Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding. 

Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who’ve grown to be a Top as well? 

Perhaps you’re like Karina and you’ve been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you. 

Don’t forget – Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops  and remind them how amazing they are!

Tops, please be open to feedback – it’s how we grow. 

So, if you’ve ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more.

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Episode 0118 – Kink-Affirming Therapist

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Kink-Affirming Therapist

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests. 

She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive. 

She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let’s face it, growing and learning to love yourself without shame IS A PROCESS… a process worth experiencing for your own well being. 

Listen as we explore questions to ask yourself in order to understand yourself and your needs in the scene and dynamics. Knowing that there are lots of different kink and spanko flavors. 

It’s your spanko story, make it the best one you can. 

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Episode 0104 – Matilda Caesar

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Matilda Caesar

Swish… Crack… Do you love the sound of a cane? Our guest, Matilda Caesar, does. Get to know this professional spankee from London, England and some of her very favorite spanking things!

She regails us with tales of her adventures in the London spanking scene, some mansion roleplays, her origins as a professional, and how a photoshoot changed her life! 

This beautiful, life-long spanko opens up with us about some of her innermost thoughts, desires, and even some of the spanking fantasies she enjoys personally… and the importance of keeping some things just for yourself!

Did we mention she does some video modeling as well?
You can find her working with Miss Iceni, and soon from some other studios as well.
If you don’t know Matilda Caesar yet, you will soon!

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Episode 0092 – Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service

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Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service

Shaylah, sorry, MISS Shaylah, is back and she brought some friends along to discuss Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

Miss Shaylah briefly touched on offering this service on a previous episode, but we wanted to know more. Mr. Ben and Sarah (from Canada) have partaken in this special service, and they wanted to share their thoughts as well. 

Not only is this a very special and unique service offered by a wonderfully skilled member of our community, her patrons speak about the glowing results! We hear from both a Top (Mr. Ben) and a Bottom (Sarah) about what this service was like for them. It’s not just cornertime, it’s so much more! It’s a whole experience, especially tailored just for you!

Parties can be overwhelming, sometimes you just need a time out. Come hear how Miss Shaylah offers this service to provide the headspace you need to relax and respect yourself! If this sounds like something you need, reach out and inquire about Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

We had a great time hanging out with these wonderful people, and we hope you do too! Come and listen to Sarah squirm with embarrassment… even before her next session!

 

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Episode 0073 – Switching in Spanking

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Switching in Spanking

Our friends, BetterOffKinky and WoodLover, who both identify as Switches within the scene join us to discuss Switching. You may remember WoodLover from our Long Distance Relationships episode, and BetterOffKinky from our Topping and Miss Chris episodes. They both discuss their history in the scene and how they each discovered why Switch was the right role for them.

Why pick just one side of spanking play when you can have both? What goes into defining yourself as a switch? Is it the same with every relationship or dynamic? How hard is it to switch in the same scene? Are there different challenges being a female switch than being a male switch? They answer these questions and many more!

If you’ve ever wanted to learn more about being a Switch, we couldn’t ask for better friends to help you out with this topic!

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